Dating sleeping with more than one person
They would rather go back to pursuing "the one," despite the fact that their lives will likely be worse off in the short run.
Bottom line: Be careful with the generalizations that you make before dismissing someone.
If a man has only been on three or four dates with you in an entire month, he very well might be using you for physical relations.
However, if a man puts in two or more dates per week, this is definitely not the case.
Time is valuable for high-quality men, as they tend to have a lot going on in their lives.
The last thing they want to do is waste a month or two of valuable time for the sake of a conquest.
Let's face it: We live in a culture where judging others tends to be the norm.
When women embark on an endless journey of dates, society often sympathizes with them, attributing their lack of success to the cliché that there are no decent men out there.Women tend to mentally write these types of men off. The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men.They are looking for "the one." A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don't have to endlessly date anymore.Joshua Pompey is a relationship expert, helping men to succeed with online dating in countries all over the world.Over the past few weeks in particular, I’ve had quite a few readers tell me that they’re dating multiple people, something I find exhausting just thinking about it, but at the same time rather fascinating because I find that people give me all sorts of reasons for they do it: I’m just experimenting with dating. Remember how you didn’t like it when Mr Unavailable had a narcissistic harem of women he was dipping in and out of for an ego stroke? It’s where you discover the facts that will help you determine whether you should green light, date some more and potentially move into a relationship, or whether you should red light and abort the mission.The woman is often viewed as the victim who just can't catch a break.When men engage in the same behavior, the perception is that these men are womanizers, unable commit, flawed or solely out for sex.They aren't going to just settle down with any pretty face because they know they deserve the best that life has to offer, not just whatever life has to offer.These men know that there is a difference between an amazing girl and an amazing girl who is right for them.Couldn’t you ‘experiment’ with one person for a few dates, see how it goes, and then move on? Do the people who you are dating know that you’re potentially wasting their time? As people no matter what they tell you, don’t always date for the same reasons, dating someone and getting to know them will let you determine through their actions and interactions (not just words and your imagination) whether you are two people on the same page with similar primary values. Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding.